Monette Maglaya

Beatrice’s fight for survival

Once upon a time series BEATRICE was good with numbers and Jim was more of an artist. He played in a band and made a good living with short-term gigs.  She made a good living as an accountant and was content with a pretty predictable work schedule. Bea, as she was called fondly, was financially…

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NDE: Near death experience

Back from the brink EMMA looked down at the busy huddle in the operating room. She was floating, hovering above the doctors and nurses in their blood spattered scrub suits while working on someone. They were desperately trying to bring a patient back to life. Emma took a closer look. “Why that’s me,” she thought….

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Whatever happened to ‘happily ever after’?

(Part 1 of 3) “…All the lonely people Where do they all come from? All the lonely people Where do they all belong?…” —Eleanor Rigby, Lennon-McCartney STORIES make up the fabric of human life. Each life story is one thread in this vast cosmic tapestry of billions of stories all of humanity is weaving from…

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The bucket list: The power of kindness

“Kind people are the best kind of people.” WHAT does it cost to be kind to others? We often think that being kind costs us something — whether it is time, money, connections or any of what we consider to be our personal resources becoming depleted. Being kind does not diminish us. On the contrary,…

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The bucket list: Travel light

“He who must travel happily must travel light.” — Antoine de Saint-Exupery (Sixteenth of a series) TRAVEL is a pure metaphor for our life’s journey. There are two choices in the way we can travel. We can travel light or we can load up on stuff and literally become a beast of burden. The reality…

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The bucket list: Ask for help

15th of a series “Don’t be shy about asking for help. It doesn’t mean you’re weak, it only means you’re wise.”  — Anonymous WE live in the Age of Information. You could say it is both a blessing and a curse to live during what could very well be “the best of times, the worst of…

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The Bucket List: Grazing in the Grass

11th of a Series – (Conclusion of 2 Parts) “ … The saddest thing about a life is to be forgotten as though you never lived..…” (CONTINUED from last week …) You hope that a smattering of beautiful memories, yours as well as of those you leave behind, are indelibly marked in a few hearts…

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The bucket list: Divest early

(Thirteenth of a series, ) “ …You won’t need a U-Haul truck when you pass. Jesus did say it is harder for a rich man to get  into heaven than for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle…” YOU have become a collector over the years. Memories, good and bad, you have…

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The bucket list: Grazing in the grass

(11th of a series – Conclusion 1 of 2 parts. Continued from last week…) “ …The saddest thing about a life is to be forgotten as though you never lived…” You hope that a smattering of beautiful memories, yours as well as of those you leave behind, are indelibly marked in a few hearts and…

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The bucket list: Fix the broken (7th of a series)

”Broken hearts? Broken relationships? The solution is always the same. FORGIVE. Forgive as you have been forgiven. And while you’re at it, FORGET.” [Select a handful of those things in your bucket list that have the highest chance of coming to fruition given your time frame. In tech speak, it means before your life’s energy goes into ‘ low…

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The bucket list

Pamper yourself with a massage (4th of a series) ”I have a massage when I want to relax. I love being pampered. I love island massages when you’re outside in the fresh air.”                                        —Angie Stone Select…

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The bucket list: Watch the Perseids! (3rd of a series)

”…Humility, like darkness, reveals the heavenly lights.” —Henry David Thoreau Select a handful of those things in your bucket list that have the highest chance of coming to fruition given your time frame. In tech speak, it means before your life’s energy goes into ‘ low batt mode’ and life has run out of sockets to…

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The bucket list: Write your story (2nd of a series)

”…Healing begins with forgiveness.  It can make us whole again. And when we are whole and bathed in God’s light, darkness no longer holds power over us.” [Select a handful of those things in your bucket list that have the highest chance of coming to fruition given your time frame. In tech speak, this means before your…

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Reprising the Series: The Bucket List

“What goes on four legs in the morning, two in the afternoon and three in the evening?” asked the Sphinx. ‘Man,’ Oedipus answered after some thought.”  – Riddle of the Sphinx (What better way to begin 2019 by revisiting your bucket list, fine-tuning it by editing, yanking off a few hare-brained entries, patting your back…

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Christ is the reason for every season

“No Santa Claus? Thank God he lives and lives forever. A thousand years from now, Virginia, may 10 times 10,000 years from now, he will continue to make glad the  heart of childhood.”    —Francis P. Church ONE of the things that make living in this land exciting is coming to an appreciation of the culture, the…

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Taking the time to just be this Christmas

“…Lose the remote control. Break free of your electronic leashes  for a little while. Take the time to just be yourself…” IT’S that time of year again. And every year, whether we like it or not, we all go through the same rituals. This is a time of winnowing and thinning, just like the fall season when we…

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Two magical words (Conclusion of 2 parts)

“Gratitude is the memory of the heart.” –Jean Baptiste Massieu (Continued from last week’s issue…) So okay, your partner is the consummate slob and you have to pick up after him. He thinks he has a maid living with him for free.  He has this maddening habit of not putting the toothpaste cap back on. That’s…

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